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The Lonely Season Redeemed

Well, I had everything planned and then things changed. Becoming a widow does that.  Before there was someone I belonged to and he belonged to me.lonely

Christmas this year will be different, but then I knew that.  It will be with my dear and oldest friend in Wichita.  She is a widow also and understands this very unwelcome season of life.

I have always been strong and capable; perhaps a bit too much in charge, but all of that is changed as I am learning to flow with this season in a new way.

When my Mom got married at 91, I knew it was because she wanted someone to be with and now, more than ever, I understand.  But for me, I would rather be alone than to be with the wrong person.

I am learning that the only One Dear Godthat I can depend on is the Lord and I think it is a lesson He wanted me to learn long ago.  All too often, we look to family and friends to fill us up with their warmth and love.  Now it is time for me to love them right where they are and fill them up with the warmth that the Lord gives me..  He has them in the palm of His hand and He has me as well.

I remember Mom saying when I came to visit that I didn’t spend enough time with her.  I had so many friends to see.  Today, in this season, I understand that she was wanting me to be there with her.  Perhaps I am reaping what I sowed or maybe it is just the lonely season of life.

I got the most wonderful massage yesterday.  The whole time she was using her healing hands on me, she prayed with me.  It was a time of refocusing on the important things.  I have so much to be thankful for and so many things to accomplish.  I am grateful to her.

I am going to have a Merry Christmas and I am looking forward to a New Year of fulfillment and love.  Merry Christmas everyone!





I Commit All to God in 2013

When I got the review from WordPress and found out that people in 76 countries have been reading my stories, I was totally blown away.  I want to thank each of you for looking at this blog.  Happy New Year.  I wonder where we will be 2014.  I know for sure, if we don’t start now, we will be looking back and wishing we had.

I found a wonderful Scripture in Job 5:8.  It says “I would seek God and unto God I would commit my cause.”  This year, I am starting a new business venture and it is set to kick off today.  Seeking God, I commit this new venture to Him.

I have spent a lot of money (for me) to develop web pages that will help me and those I select to become successful!!  There are many wonderful tools that I can share with others.

I must confess, I have butterflies, but as with any business, you have to spend money to make money.  Very soon I will post a blog that tells you how you can apply, if you are interested.  While I don’t promise that you will make $1 million, those who will be serious can develop a nice income as a result of their effort.  The amazing tools and support makes success not only possible but highly probable.

I am also part of a group of friends that are committing to live wiser lives this year by eating healthy and normalizing our weight once and for all.  We are starting after New Year’s Day.  Stay tuned for my progress!

Watch for my announcement!!!

 “What are you seeking and what cause do you have in 2013?”  Let me know.

Resolved? 2012

“I resolve this year to be the kind of person my dog thinks I am.”  (I saw this posted on a church sign and loved it!)  What else have we resolved to do this year?  Have we resolved to de-stress?  Lose weight?  Quit smoking?  Stop procrastinating?  Get a new job?  Clean the garage?  Be kind?  Eat healthy?  Not respond with anger?  Get out of debt?

Is this the first year you have made this resolution?  Do you think you will keep it?  Did you keep it last year?  What would it take to help you keep it?  Can it be done?  All good questions.

Why is it that we can’t do what we want to do?  Why do we try again and again and more importantly why do we fail again and again?  If we do overcome, we have to work  continually not to go back to where we were.  What is the solution?  How can our resolutions actually work?

Paul, the apostle understood how we feel.  He said ” I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.  . . So I am not the one doing wrong; it is sin living in me that does it.”

Yikes!  Sin lives in me?  I don’t want anything living in me that I can’t control.  Do you?  If sin lives in me, then it actually controls a lot of what I do.  I can make resolution after resolution or go through rehab or diet but sin takes over and I do what I don’t want to do!  That stinks!  How can I break this cycle?

Paul continued, “Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death? Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord. . .”

So, there it is.  Jesus is the answer.  We have heard that often, but so much that it just seems like another religious idea.  Can He really make a difference?  When you ask Him into your heart, then as hard as it may be to understand, His Spirit comes to live it you and it really is helpful.   Paul goes on, “The power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death!”

So when we have Jesus in our hearts, the only power that sin has in our lives, is what we give it.  When we let the Spirit of God lead us, we can overcome the challenges that we face.

So this year, join me in resolving to open the door of my heart to Jesus and He will help us to be free.

It is easy to do.  The Bible says that those who call on the name of the Lord Jesus Christ shall be saved.  Read John 3:16, 17.  Find out how much He loves you and that He is just waiting for you to call out to Him.

Each of us comes to the realization of who He is in a different way.  For me, I was driving down the road, listening to the radio preacher when God took over his voice and I knew for sure that He was real.  I just began to say, “I’m sorry Jesus.  I just didn’t know.  I didn’t know.”  So it isn’t a formula, it is a heart thing.  Ask Him to make Himself real and I promise that He will.

Is that it?  Jesus comes in and then it is all easy?  For years, my favorite Scripture has been, ” It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.”  I could never figure it out.  How is it when I had asked Jesus in that I was still not free.  The problem was that I was still making resolutions.  I was still trying to do them without Him.  So this year, I resolve to get out-of-the-way and rest in Him.  He knows me and when I get closer to Him and know Him better, He takes the issues and clears them up.

Happy 2012!

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