Once again Abigail had blown it! She had cleaned the house and thought she had covered every corner. When her husband, Kyle, came home, he lost it! Look at this drawer! It is a mess. I am so sick of you not doing things right! She rushed over and began to straighten the offending drawer. She sighed. Nothing she ever did was good enough.
Yesterday he had run his finger over the top of the door and found dust. He raved. She felt again like nothing she ever did was good enough. The day before, he told her he had written a date on top of the refrigerator a week before and she hadn’t found it. He ridiculed her.
She tried. She really did, but it was impossible to please him.
Often we think God is as demanding as Kyle. Even though we try, we can’t live up to the Law that we see in Scripture. We may say a swear word or we get angry at our kids. We don’t pray or read our Bible every day. We are sure that we have disappointed the Lord and soon we give up trying to reach Him.
The Good News!
God knew we could never be perfect and that is why He gave us the Law so that we could see the futility of trying to do it on our own. He sent His Son, Jesus, to pay the price for all of our sin and imperfection. He did what we could not do. He has released us from all condemnation.
He looks at us as little children. If your toddler spills his milk, you don’t give him away or tell him that he is useless. You clean it up and fill the glass again and use a cup that won’t spill. You help him learn how to manage new challenges so that he can become a responsible adult. It takes time to develop a child into a person of excellence. It is done step-by-step and moment-by-moment. You love them, encourage them, discipline them and give them room to make mistakes.
God is much nicer than you are. He is Good and His Loving-kindness endures forever!
It is Satan who has made us think that God is our critic. He is not. He knew we couldn’t live the life we see in the Law – not even the basic ten commandments. Jesus had to become a man and dwell among us and pay the full price for all the things we have done and will do. He covered everything including our thoughts, actions, attitudes, all kinds of sin and fears. When we accept what Jesus has done, He begins to complete the good work He has begun in us. He won’t stop or give up on us.
He might put us on hold if we get too rebellious but He waits patiently for us to turn back to HIm.
When we yield to the Spirit of God, we begin to become who has intended us to be. He has given us everything we need for life and godliness. Everything! He has made us the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. He has sent His own Holy Spirit to live in us to help us, lead us, guide us and comfort us.
He is nicer than the most loving parent and He brings us into people of excellence and not perfection.
Perfection! “It ain’t ever gonna happen – so get over it and enjoy the patience and the love of God who restores us and loves us at all times.”
There is a process that happens over time as we yield to the leading of the Lord and it yields excellence. When you mess up, confess it to the Lord, and walk free of the guilt and shame.
Tell the devil to ‘shut up!’ He will want to continue to beat you with your failures. He thinks he is so clever. He tempts you to do wrong and then beats you for doing it.
God sees that you have made a mistake and as soon as you confess it, you are released it and you are free. I love the Scripture that says, “It is for freedom that Christ set us free!”
Trust Him with all the circumstances of your life and live free!
Share a time that you when you knew you were free!